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Are
You Buying a Jacksonville House or a Home?
As
you read and study about buying real estate,
you will often find the words "house"
and "home" used interchangeably. There
is a huge difference between a house and a home.
A
house can be a place to eat, sleep, park your
car, and put all your "stuff" (including
other family members). It is a material possession
and an investment. A home is where you feel
comfortable, warm, safe, and protected. A home
is where you live.
A
house is something you buy logically. A home
is an emotional purchase. When buying real estate
you have to balance your emotional wants and
your logical needs because there will almost
certainly be a time when the two conflict.
Example
For
example, you may want a house with a view, but
the payment is higher than you feel comfortable
with on a thirty-year fixed rate mortgage.
What
do you do?
Purchase
the house anyway and budget more carefully for
the next few years? Buy the same house without
the view and get it cheaper? Make a larger down
payment by borrowing from your 401K or family
members, so you get a lower payment? Get an
adjustable rate mortgage with a smaller payment
instead of a fixed rate loan? Or buy a smaller
house and still get the view?
When
viewing the house, most people look at it emotionally
and envision it as a safe, happy, comfortable
home. Later, when making the offer or filling
out a mortgage application, your logic may begin
to kick in, instead.
Balancing
Act
The
trick in buying real estate is to view all decisions
with both a logical perspective and an emotional
perspective. If a situation presents itself
that requires a trade-off, decide on whether
there is a huge conflict or a small one. Logic
should win the big conflicts, but emotion should
always be a factor, even winning the small ones.
You
will find yourself owning a warm, happy, safe
home - and an investment for the future at a
price you are willing to pay.
copyright
2006 by Terry Light and RealEstate ABC, revised
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